Yes I have children. I did not offer advice on purpose. My point was each child and family has their own way and culture. I can have an opinion but that is about it.
I have worked with hundreds of families and their children over the last 30 years and I do know something about small children. I do not presume to offer advice, I am happy to be a listening ear and also help them access any assistance they require from those qualified to offer it. I am expert in my field but not every facet of child rearing and I haven't walked in their shoes.
I look back and see some things I would do differently with knowledge I have now, that's hindsight for you!
Young families need support not criticism.