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I don't see how what I wrote is any different to what you wrote.We also have a younger, 9 month old dog who plays and runs with her, so this doesn't enable her to rest all that well
I never said anything about not giving a sh1t. But she's not doing all she can either.What is her quality of life going to be?
I would be concidering maybe putting her out of her misery.