Thanks Hy will definately be reading it from start to finish
I understand Flirt, Yes it is OCD he was (scarily) diagnosed in the first 2 years,. It is also genetic on my side tho neither of us are extreme we both get very distressed if certain things out of order for him we can not get him to do Anything unless it is fixed. and if we get upset then we both have to do certain 'ticks' to help us calm down. He socialises well actually better than most kids his well, he is scarily intelligent. But I am still going to watch hiim for the next few weeks regard less just incase. he has a follow up Doc appointment tomorrow I might mention those concerns with him.