Sending a dog away is not really a good option. Dogs are not robots who get programmed by one person and then sent to another to serve. You need and should build a relationship with your dog and work with him yourself (with guidance of someone who knows how). Your dog can be perfect in hands of some handler that will teach him things, but not necessary (or not for long) good with you afterwards. Whoever tells you differently is lying or wants to take your $$$
Respect and you shall be respected. Animal is always right.