I was just wondering if some one could give me your thoughts..
I'm 19 now and I would like to move out but I know it isn't a good idea unless I can move out with a friend or if I just save, save and save and move out when I'm between 22-25. My friend and I were talking and we discussed moving out near the end of this year and I was happy about it, or I thought I was. We talked about the dogs since I want inside dogs and I was alright with what she wanted, example; no dogs on the furniture, dogs can't be inside all the time. Then last night I slept over at her place and her dad and I were talking with my friends dad had a small go at me about the dogs being inside cause he doesn't like dogs inside but I blankly said 'It will be me and Sarah moving out and we've talked about the dogs' and I walked out to her room.
I was thinking about this all night/day and now I'm starting to think. Should I really move out so soon?. I mean, I'd have to live with some one, it would be to hard to save money cause for payment on rent and so forth, I can't even have my dogs inside when I want. If I wait and save, even if it's 3 or 4 years later, the dogs will have to live outside but I am moving to the shed so that means the dogs can be in the shed with me aslong as I am in there [which will be all the time since I spend almost 24/7 in my room unless I am not with the dogs], I will still be living with mum but at least I'll be able to save money, dogs will be allowed with me as much as I want them to be.
The part of not moving out sounds better actually. I do want to move out but I love and adore my dogs and like having them with me and not being told what to do with them (my mum never tells me what to do with them since there mine, yet, my friend probably will). To make it worse, her father made a personal attack on Serenity cause she's unsure of certain people/loud or odd noises and will go off (barking/growling) and he was saying how I shouldn't have a dog like that.. and now my friend looks down on Serenity. It pissed me off. She isn't a bad dog.
I was just wondering, do you guys think it's a better idea just to stay at home and save the money so the day I save enough money, I can move out by myself with the dogs.
Currently I live in the house and the dogs can only sleep inside my room at night but I am moving into the shed in a month and then the dogs will be allowed in there 24/7, aslong as I am in there and I spend all my time in my room if I am not working or not with the dogs.