It's usually the owners of the females who looks for the stud dog, I can see how it would be troublesome going the other way around.
If you get listed in dog mags etc as having a stud dog available, making available your prefix, any titles that may have been gained by the stud dog, his lineage and all that stuff, I guess all you can do is wait and see.
You've probably allready done all that, sorry not much help I know.
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