I know that you admire Cesar BUT having your own puppy/dog look at your face isn't dominance at all. Dora should be approaching you by either running up, tail wagging, looking at you, ears up or relaxed. She shouldn't be looking down, approaching you slowly, ears back, and with no movement of her tail. A dogs tail wagging freely is a sign of happiness and that is what she needs. Let her be a puppy and relax, then get into training, she needs to bond with you (it may seem as though she already has but a firm bond takes time to achieve. Will add more shortly.
Here...we teach our dogs to "look". Looking is how we know they are paying attention to us...by having eye contact. If your dog is too scared to give you eye contact...you need to take a step back. She needs to be allowed to act like a puppy and be a puppy
I don't have submissive dogs, but I still do training. You'll get there Masha, your young and enthusiastic and your learning.
I also meant to say, but didn't, because computer is going nuts.
But if my dogs were submission I would forget all training and just have fun.
As said before, I would much rather work with an over enthusiastic dog than a reluctant dog any day.
Your dog is showing submission all right, but in a totally fearful way. And unfortunately, a fearful dog can often become a dangerous dog. This would also explain some of the other behaviour she seems to be portraying, reading around the threads.
We are here to help you, so please take this on board in the kindest way - you MUST start to develop a totally unfearful and loving relationship with Dora NOW.
Mouse&Chicken has also given you some outstanding advice IMO. Step back the training, and start playing until Dora looses all this fearfulness. Otherwise nothing good is going to come from it in the end.
looses = loses. Doh.
The trainer from puppy classes said to practice the looking at your face exercise at least twice a day and I'm gonna start doing it a bit more often.
When I come home after a few hours away, Dora DOES run up to me, tail wagging, but since I've watched and read so much Cesar I thought it was dominant behaviour.
God, I'm so STUPID.
From now on, Dora and I will throw out this Cesar junk and start having fun
Now let's give you some useful stuff to read
Calming Signals Community
Flying Dog Press - Suzanne Clothier - Registration Required!
(you must log in to read articles, but trust me, it's worth investing those 5 minutes )
Sirius Dog Training
A-Z Parenting Resources | Wonder Puppy
(this one's good, browse through for some useful literature)
Using 'Dominance' To Explain Dog Behavior Is Old Hat
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