I think it's time you take a step back, reflect and maybe listen to another's opinion. Your argument with my wife (not my mother or older sister) started from your unwillingness to believe DA's statement about being angry at herself for something she explained (quite clearly IMO) that she herself had done that had been annoying her when others did it.
You stated she couldn't alter your view of the situation, which is tantamount to calling her a liar to her face and in a public forum for all to see. You also stated your understanding of the english language was probably better than that of most other people.
Even if that's true - which your grammar and spelling suggest to be a stretch (an assumption on my part based on the evidence before me and which I make for illustration purposes only) - it does not mean you know what DA was thinking or intending better than she herself did. It was an ASSUMPTION (just like the one I just made).
For what it is worth, those statements DO appear rather pompous and self-promoting and likely to invoke a response from someone, in this case my wife.
You subsequently write a public post to me in which you state that you assume: 1) I am a child; and 2) I may have put you on my ignore list, adding fuel to the fire (intentionally IMO, otherwise what was the point or why couldn't you have sent me a private message?)
So, to summarise, I believe you have made a few....hmmmm....how should I put this...'errors of judgment when it comes to forum etiquette:
Made assumptions about what another forum member meant, that required (IMO) somewhat of a giant leap;
Publicly inferred a forum member was lying (despite her denials of your assumption and providing a reasonable explanation to back up those denials); and
Put yourself on a pedestal with the "command of the english language" comments.
My wife called you on these "errors" in an effort to stand up for DA and the argument has continued ad nauseum ever since, becoming more and more personal on both sides.
Might I suggest you both just stop. It is clear that you both have strong personalities but seriously, there will be no winners in this. She won't back down and it is fairly obvious you won't either, so how about you both call it a draw (in private) and move on.
Agree to dislike each other and stop the jibes. If you feel I'm wrong in writing this post then so be it, but if you feel the need to reply, at least do me the courtesy (as I have done you) by doing it in private.
So, now that you have the full story of what I wrote, perhaps you can see who the nasty one really is. Mind you, I won't stoop so low as to post her reply to me. I will however challenge her to do so.