I feel sorry for dog that has to live with Flakey girl.
I'm sure if you looked in her left ear - you'd see straight through and out the right ear.
If you do hand the dog back - make sure you let her know any time she can't hack it anymore you will take him and let her know about the chi rescue people too and about no - kill shelters.
I have been so mad at Frosty exactly once I thought she could just die in traffic - that's the time I couldn't get her back on lead to go home when I had a pile of appointments that day. I walked home and let her follow me despite the roads. Eek, but I was so angry and frustrated.
DisneyGP - I think you did the right thing taking dog away from flakey girl even only so he could find a better life via the rescue group. Not sure it's good for his health to give him back.