ok so i appologise in advance for this but im going to vent/sook so bear with me ok!!
ok so me and dano (bf) have been together almost three years and we never fight. ths year we moved in together and still dont fight its a pretty awesome relationship no jelousy no nastiness and i love him....
he never makes time to do stuff together. he goes to his mates place over an hour away (with out telling me) which is fine i like him hanging out with his mates its good, and he drives 3 hours and goes hiking with his brother which is also fine.
when i suggest we do something together he says no, or hes too tired, or its the weekend and he just wants to do his own thing. generally he uses the tired excuse.
when i suggest that maybe i come along when he goes to his mates i get turned down, i havent done this all year mind so its not like i never let him have boy on boy time.. and lately he's just been going, and telling me when i call him all worried because he's an hour and a half late home from work.
any way he did it again tonight third time this week so i sent him a big message wich he has ignored....
do you think im being selfish becuase im not happy just eating dinner together?? because thats pretty much all the quality time we get