Hell Laura, not a pretty relationship, I'm sorry to say.
I think you're being duped here big time, and because you probably are still in love with him (?) you can't see it clearly. But I think your eyes are starting to clear.
i guess everyone is different, but there is no way in this world i would or could ever let anybody treat me the way he is treating you.
No, he's not much into you or this relationship, and I think he's biding time until he leaves and never comes back.
I'm sorry Laura. Hugs to you.