Hey devils advocate
You are so right! OH got stuck right into it last night when I told him about you guys! I cooked our dinner while he fed Charlie which im the first to admit confused Charlie. When Charlie looks at OH sometimes you can see that he's thinking what do I need YOU for! but OH quickly reminded him last night the problem is Charlie LOVES OH its not that ne doesnt love him he reserves a certain amount of energy for OH so that when he gets home they can play! He just doesnt feel like he needs to listen to him so he loves just doesnt respect! But baby steps!
A Spoodle is from what I understand not a recognised breed but one of the many many many oodles out there he is a Cocker Spaniel x Miniature Poodle I overall disagree with pet stores and how and where they get the pups from but i always have and always will when I walk by go in for a little looksee at the poor little pups in the window and I really fell in love with Charlie and only Charlie and I figure that I know that Im going to love him for life he'll never end up like some of the pet shop babies we hear about in the RSPCA or pound.
Charlies first full night in the laundry last night went great for us! We already had the best earplugs money could buy! But for little Charlie it was an ordeal he cried the whole night I wake up during the night alot as it is and I could hear the faint (due to the earplugs) cries of my little Charlie! We woke up this morning and gave him not too much attention took him out fed him and got him to go "potty time" and now he's relaxing at the door of the study where I still havent released him from his sit... although its turned into a lie now.