What did you mean by that then Occy?
I apologised with meaning.. I think you deserved more empathy and I was harsh and rude to you. I believe you have unintentionally painted a picture of yourself that is not true to your nature, which may be contributing to the fact that people find your posts offensive and why i was actually surprised that you got defensive rather than just taken it in your typical style.
I am actually sincerely sorry Occy. I won't be chasing your for your acceptance or forgiveness though.