One persons rude is another persons forthright. One persons nice is smothers sickly sweet. It is how it is. Someone dropped me a pm to apologise for sonething they said. I told them honestly that I had nfi what they were talking about. There will always be, in any forum, a group that were there from early on. I remember what happened when a couple if ppl decided they didn't like how I typed. The result was a hissy fit and suicide posts from members who not long after returned as if nothing ever happened . I for one am glad of the new people here, regardless of different opinions. Iwas kicked off another forum which was based on nepotism and people getting power by donating money. Let's hope this forum never becomes that.
This place isn't perfect but geez it's better than those lovey dovey forums and those mass marketing type forums. If you don't like it you have a couple of choices. Leave...or work to make it better. Threads like this do not build community they just tend to build ill will.
Just IMO of course