oh yeah and with your kids if you say be good and youl get a treat for instance... if they be good they get a treat = positive re enforcment if they dont they dont get a treat next time they know if theyre good theyl get a treat and if theyre bad they wont..= negative reenforcement.(strengthen behaviour)
if you belt your kids when theyre bad = punishment (weaken behaviour)
get what i mean by streangthen and weaken behaviours??