The situation with my MIL is getting me down, I'm not looking for advice just need to vent.
She's been living with my patner and I on and off over the last 4 years.
She does contract work so she'll work for 6 to 8 months and then come back and stay with us for 2 to 4 months untill she gets work again.
This arrangment has worked well. We get on great and while she's with us she helps with bills and minds the dogs if we want to have a couple of day away.
Usually around the 3 month mark we do start to wear on each other as we live in a 2 bedroom unit so we're all on top of each other. But it's ok because we know she'll move on soon.
But this time it looks like she wont be able to go back to work any time soon, if at all. I really feel for her as she'll always been very independent. But we've just bought a house and we're moving in 2 weeks.
She wasn't supposed to be living with us when we moved but now she will be.
I feel like Im being selfish not wanting her there but at the same time this is a huge thing for us and at the moment it doesn't feel like it's our house, it's his, mine and his mothers.
I want to be able to come home and do things with out having to worry about her.
Right now I come home and go straight for the computer and head phones so I can have some time to myself.
Didn't mean to ramble on there.
If you've read all that you deserve a cupcake