Thanks guys its just hard because I'm hanging out to get my baby but everyone else is saying 'shut up already' and they think i should just be able to run out and buy one. Interestingly i said to my OH if i was doing IVF and had to wait another 6 months for a chance to have a human baby i could talk about it all i liked and no one would bat an eyelid.

And yes Chubb you are a bad influence ive been thinking about those poor bulldogs all weekend hoping they go to the right home. I've only just got my OH thinking about 2 dogs in the future and now i want to ask for 10!