Oh well ignorance is bliss on my part, mind you it is a long time since I saw such a sex toy so maybe they have been updated.
My dogs love em and I obviously dont realise any "looks" that I might get LOL. I will watch more carefully next time I take them out in public. I have them at dog trials and no one has ever commented. Perhaps dog people at trials are more focussed on what gets their dogs charged up than what they may resemble LOL.
I have the large safestix and the mind boggles at the thought of those being mistaken.