I dont think i have ever gotten up to take a pup to the toilet at night. Ever. And was taught by my ex husband, that if you are nasty when woken, things stop waking you. kids n pups included.
Crate, by bed. Crate can be anything, from a really expensive one, to a kids travel cot from charity shop whilst house training to go through the night without waking me.
Ear plugs, and shifts devided by amount of staff on your family team to share it with. Kids should really be about 6yrs of age, before you ask them to get up and take a pup out to toilet anyhow.