I'm so glad I ran into this forum. You guys have been amazing. Since I'm on my own it's been a rather stressful week. No one to talk too and no one to share the load with. It's such a relief to be able to share the problem with people who understand and can offer sound advice.
Edit: Just wanted to thank Nekhbet for his/her advice as well
Edit part 2: Kikopup is bloody brilliant!!