Ok, I used to have a related issue with my previous hound, Luna which I'll describe first because I suspect there is theme here. Luna used to bully other dogs we met pretty consistently. But then I got reports of the times she got out of the yard and her completely ignoring the dogs she met. (She also seemed to get on fine with dogs that didn't have their owner with them.) So I always thought her tendency to domineer other dogs had something to do with what me giving off some unconscious message that that is what I expected of her. But I never managed to solve this.
Now with Banjo... Her biggest issue is jumping on people. But this behaviour also seems to be a lot worse when I'm around. The house-sitters and the people who minded her at their house reported that she barely jumped at all after I left. This morning I tied her up at the school while I walked my daughter in and when I came back 10 minutes later, she was lying on her back having her tummy rubbed by 2 young boys. But as soon as she saw me she got up and started jumping at them and trying to violently lick them!