dont listen to the desexing people if you dont want to sheena, stand ya ground.
most people who tell you to desex have there own agenda or are breeders who dont want ppl getting in the way of there business profit.
if ppl cant see you are atleast trying to be responcible and make him sterile without as much of a dramatic impact on natural behaviours and instincts then just ignore them.
a wise woman told me once, its learning to do ya own thing and to hell with what others think.
because the natural way of life is to get ahead of others and slow the others down to become higher in standing.