Clea...I'm taking your advice!
Poppy is sleeping in the main bathroom tonight! She had a stay in there while I mopped the floors and then while we got to get dinner and she wasn't crying/scratching at the door when we got back! She will have her bed and her toy and some newspaper and she WILL learn to sleep!
I gave in at 5am this morning! I knew I had to get up at 6.30am and just wanted another hours sleep! I was SOOOO tired! I couldn't take the whining/scratching anymore!
At 6am I woke to find poo...LOTS of it! On the tiles...fine I can deal with that...then...on the carpet!!! Oh no!!! Not on Missy!!!
So thats it! Tonight is the night! Wish us well!!!