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Thread: A Very Childish Relationship Dillema.

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    Default A Very Childish Relationship Dillema.

    Very childish.

    Sooooo, me and my best friend met this guy about 3 years ago. They dated for 10 months, while we stayed friends. Since they broke up about 6 months ago, I have been 'with' him for about 3 weeks, keeping it sort of quiet.
    Anyway, now she has found out and has apprently been crying to all my other friends about it and won't answer her phone when I call.
    I, feel, terrible!
    Have I done the wrong thing?

    Jeeeez, I swear im not 16!
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    Hmm I've never been in that situation but I have always thought of my girlfriends' exes as a no-go zone. If you were keeping it quiet then maybe you had an idea she might not like it?

    Ask yourself, is he worth losing your best friend over?

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    I haven't got much to offer, 'cept a ... that's a bit of an ordinary situation to be in.

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    If you dont mind, how old ARE you?
    I think that maybe your friend is a little jealous? You've done nothing wrong, and they've being over for 6 months... that IMO is definitely not wrong.
    But maybe look at it from her POV? I would hate it if any of my friends dated any of my old boyfriends, no matter for how long we've being over, even though it would be unjustified of me.

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    she will get over it..
    My best friend stole one of my boyfriends when i was 17. they went out for 2 years.. he screwed her over..

    My OH went out with a couple of my close mates. They got over it..

    She is probably pissed because you didnt tell her yourself

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    To be honest, for the last year, she has hardly behaved like a best friend. She used to ditch me for him all the time.
    And im not trying to defend myself, but what if he was 'the one' but i never found out because i wasnt allowed to date them simply for being a friends ex.
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    Oh no, I totally agree with you, Myf. If you like him, go for it, try it out. And as for your friend ditching you for him all the time...well, I can relate to you... maybe SHE'S not worth it?

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    What do he think about the whole thing?? U dont dont have to say if you dont want too

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    Im 22 Masha.
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    Look Myf...you are not going to like what I have to say I think. IMO I think boys/men who previously went out with one of my friends if off limit...that is just my opinion...sorry

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