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Thread: A Very Childish Relationship Dillema.

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    i was in the same situation years ago ,
    then my freind never came back . but it was ture love, Im now married to him,and have a 4 year old child, im now going on 25

    do what your gut tells you. love isnt easy , but what if he is the ture one

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    Personally I think you should just got with what your heart tells you mate

    At the end of the day could you sit down and say that in 20yrs time your friend will still be there for you?

    I dont think you could....because she isnt being there for you now I honestly think she is probably angry about it but a true friend will stand by you NO MATTER WHAT!

    Perhaps just explain to her how you feel and then when it comes to him...go with the flow?

    My mother once told me:
    In someones lifetime you will be able to count the amount of true friends they have on one hand. You may not see them regularly, you may not be "close" but if you ever needed them they would stand with you to the end.

    ^^^^^ I think the above saying is something you should considering when regarding your friend! Do you think she is one of those or not?

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    Jeez im just more confused now!
    I found out today they had been 'back together' in December, which I had no idea about, and then he 'left' her for me 3 weeks ago. So now I seem like the home-wrecker!
    Anne, they had been together for 10 months and broken up for 6 months but still!
    I attempted to talk to her today. I said '*insert name here* I need to talk to you' and she replied with 'eff off'.

    Its so complicated. She hasn't really been my best friend since they started going out in 2008. I know why we are best friends, I just havent seen that side for a long time.
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    Something isn't right here Mfy.

    I'd be interested to see what this fellow has to say about it all. Lol.
    So you didn't know he had got back together into a relationship with her prior to dating you?

    Alarm bells ringing...hello...

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    Nope, had no idea at all.
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    So who told you that piece of info today, Myf? The boyfriend? Or your friend? I assume the boyfriend as you have stated that your friend won't talk to you.

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    A friend who is talking to 'the friend'. Its all so bitchy, its all so high school!!!!!
    I think im gonna let everything settle down for a bit.
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    He seems really into secret relationships

    He doesn't acknowledge your relationship in public or with his friends ("he's just not that into you")

    A red flag.

    These might fit too.
    27. He never really talks about any ex's but does blame everything on them, they cheated, wanted $, etc. etc = dumped him

    112. He's seeing someone else (and he is intimate with them) and he falls for you. It may seem very flattering, but he'll only do the same thing to you later. It's a sick pattern and it ISN'T going to stop with YOU.

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    No idea guys!
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    Well I thought he was seeing the ex in December then he moved on to MyF...

    But what really scares me is that Myf was clueless about the December thing till now.

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