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    Cleasanta - you for Steve.

    Laura's bf wouldn't know who she was on about...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hyacinth View Post
    Cleasanta - you for Steve.

    Laura's bf wouldn't know who she was on about...
    I don't need to write this down for Steve...I tell him quite regularly

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cleasanta View Post
    12 years here and still going strong!

    I don't just love Steve....I actually like him. I like what he stands for...his morals....his beliefs. I like that he always phones me when he is at work to make sure I am ok. I like that I am still looking forward to him coming home from work every day. He is honest, kind and 100% genuine. It also comes down to compromises in a relationship. To have a good marriage...you need to be able to compromise and it shouldn't always be the same person who does that! You need to admit to making mistakes....you need to commit to the other person...you need to be able to openly communicate. Of course it is not all smooth sailing...things happen...things are said that you wish you could un-say!
    see thats exactly what its like with us...i knw its hard for you guys to see it because youve walked into a problem and not seen the good side of him but again its been one of two issues in three years.... anyway thanks for the advice guys and girls i appreciate it =)

    after about an hour of ermm discussion(tears) he droped his defences and admitted that he was happy to just come home to me after work (50hrs a week), and that his little time off he liked spending with his mates or doing things he wanted to do..he also admitted that it probably wasnt good enough but he was being honest. he promissed that now he understood how i felt, that he'd try to be more considerate. now this wasnt said to shut me up, he was teary soby infact and i have ever seen anything get to this guy and hes lived one hell of a hard life. i think he didnt realise how much it was getting to me and infact i am probably to blame somewhat becuase i let it build and build and build with out letting him know what was wrong..

    so anyway we are going to work through it
    he told me that hes planned a camping trip next week for us (and it is panned its not just a spur of the moment thing he thought up)

    so i guess il see how things go....but for now im happy i had my one cry of the year and it feels good for it to be gone, ive talked about an issues thats been bothering me, and i know that he really does care...

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    (we are working on the compramise bit in cleasantas post lol)

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    I think my love, you are going to do what you want regardless of help and advice that is given to you. I really hope it all works out for your sake.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PeiLuver View Post
    I think my love, you are going to do what you want regardless of help and advice that is given to you. I really hope it all works out for your sake.
    Exactly what I was thinking...I think this is over and out for me guys...

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    I went through a similar thing with my first bf, exept he honestly didn't know what was going on.
    We were together 4 years, in the last year he was spending more time with his mates than me, usually doing stuff I didn't like so I never asked to go along (I'm pretty sure he would have said yes if I asked though)
    When I told him I was leaving it came as a huge shock to him and I really think I had of talked to him about what was happening we could have worked things out. But I was only just shy of 21 and felt like I just needed to move on.

    I dont think you should give up straight away without aleast making sure he knows exactly how you feel. It's hard to give advice without knowing you both though.

    (just read you have talked to him, I really need to stop skim reading hehe, hope everything works out ) hugs
    Last edited by Bordeaux; 12-21-2009 at 09:39 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cleasanta View Post
    Exactly what I was thinking...I think this is over and out for me guys...
    Laura will keep repeating, repeating repeating until she's had enough & is ready to move on. We've all been there. Lots of love for getting it sorted Laura.

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    It sometimes works out well though and I wish you all the best.

    Any posts made under the name of Di_dee1 one can be used by anyone as I do not give a rats.

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    I hope that it does work out for you Laura and if it doesn't we're all here.....well at least I am ....I suppose I shouldn't speak for others! LOL!

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