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    Quote Originally Posted by Disneygotpierced View Post
    I'm trying to take deep breathes and let the anger simmer down. It was a very personal fight and I'd rather not discuss, I just need some cheering up. Also DA, that member who has been harassing me had started writing stuff in the chat box. I got so upset I cried. I PM'ed Morgan. It hurts so much.

    BT, thanks for your kind words. Right now I need some affection. Help me guys! Life is piling on top of me
    No probs, Dis.

    Really -re Chatbox. ill have a look. Getting tired of it. Not on.
    Remember Dis that tomorrow is another day, and things always seem different in the light of day.

    Hard to do, but look at some of the things your mum may have said to you. Can you really say she's got it wrong? And visa versa.

    When it gets physical to pushing and shoving, that is REALLY saying there is a problem. Try and settle, sweetheart. Off to put my youngest to bed. I will be back shortly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devil's Advocate View Post
    No probs, Dis.

    Really -re Chatbox. ill have a look. Getting tired of it. Not on.
    Remember Dis that tomorrow is another day, and things always seem different in the light of day.

    Hard to do, but look at some of the things your mum may have said to you. Can you really say she's got it wrong? And visa versa.

    When it gets physical to pushing and shoving, that is REALLY saying there is a problem. Try and settle, sweetheart. Off to put my youngest to bed. I will be back shortly.
    It was my fault. I exploded. I've had so much going out I took it out on her. I went to shove her, she grabbed my arms and I just sobbed into her chest and she cradled me. I love mum so much. She's my best friend. It's just other thing in life that are hurting so much. Like the fact I'm not as pretty as I used to be. I got an B on my literature exam instead of an A. How can I expect to do well in Yr 12 with those grades?
    Not to mention the member on here who is being so cruel and callous..I just feel overwhelmed.

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    Well, the 'pretty' thing is obviously something in your head that needs to be dealt with. You need to have a better opinion of yourself, for a start. And if you feel down because of something like that, you really need to get a grasp of reality, Dis. Serious girl.
    i understand the emotion re the B. A B is still great, but I'm not gonna lie. I am a perfectionist when it comes to scoring at exams, and like you, yes a B would be disappointing.

    Why did you get a B? What were the teachers comments? Discuss, so you know where you didn't do as good as planned, and can go one better next time. Having said that Dis, at your age I wouldn't be too concerned if you got an effing z. You have a lifetime ahead of you.

    Yeah, the member you are speaking of...just don't comprehend why she is being allowed to get away with the abuse she is portraying on here???
    Sometimes members on here don't like each other or get along too well, but this constant flogging is childish and disgusting. It really must stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devil's Advocate View Post
    No probs, Dis.

    Really -re Chatbox. ill have a look. Getting tired of it. Not on.
    Remember Dis that tomorrow is another day, and things always seem different in the light of day.

    Hard to do, but look at some of the things your mum may have said to you. Can you really say she's got it wrong? And visa versa.

    When it gets physical to pushing and shoving, that is REALLY saying there is a problem. Try and settle, sweetheart. Off to put my youngest to bed. I will be back shortly.
    Agree with you there DA, wise words. Sometimes DIS, the truth does hurt when we hear it, so sometimes it is wise to take stock and see if there is any truth in what is being said on both sides.

    You hope it never gets to the physical, but if you and your mum are both similar about your determinations, then this is not that surprising. But hopefully by taking a step back from the situation, both you and your mum can calm and get it back together. You do have a good relationship overall with your mum don't you??

    Just remember to love yourself first, you're a sweet girl, when you love yourself first then others love will happen as a matter of consequence.

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    Good post Baggy Trousers.

    We always hurt most the ones we love, and visa versa, Dis. If we didn't love them, it wouldn't hurt at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devil's Advocate View Post
    Well, the 'pretty' thing is obviously something in your head that needs to be dealt with. You need to have a better opinion of yourself, for a start. And if you feel down because of something like that, you really need to get a grasp of reality, Dis. Serious girl.
    i understand the emotion re the B. A B is still great, but I'm not gonna lie. I am a perfectionist when it comes to scoring at exams, and like you, yes a B would be disappointing.

    Why did you get a B? What were the teachers comments? Discuss, so you know where you didn't do as good as planned, and can go one better next time. Having said that Dis, at your age I wouldn't be too concerned if you got an effing z. You have a lifetime ahead of you.

    Yeah, the member you are speaking of...just don't comprehend why she is being allowed to get away with the abuse she is portraying on here???
    Sometimes members on here don't like each other or get along too well, but this constant flogging is childish and disgusting. It really must stop.
    There's logical answers to all of those things (now that I've calmed down)

    I've put on medical induced weight and I feel unattractive. I have lost halfish of the weight I gained, so I am working to get rid of it. It's silly, but one of my 'friends' called me fat and it really hurt.

    The grade...I got a B because I was in and out of hospital before the exam. In reality, I did excellent considering the circumstances. I'm just used to being an straight A student so this really distraught me.

    So, in hindsight I just had a bit of a breakdown. It's stupid to be upset at things I cannot control (medical issues.) After having a good cry and cuddle with mum, I'm feeling much better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baggy Trousers View Post
    Agree with you there DA, wise words. Sometimes DIS, the truth does hurt when we hear it, so sometimes it is wise to take stock and see if there is any truth in what is being said on both sides.

    You hope it never gets to the physical, but if you and your mum are both similar about your determinations, then this is not that surprising. But hopefully by taking a step back from the situation, both you and your mum can calm and get it back together. You do have a good relationship overall with your mum don't you??

    Just remember to love yourself first, you're a sweet girl, when you love yourself first then others love will happen as a matter of consequence.
    Yeah, me and mum are like best friends. I love her so much.

    Thank you BT and DA for your kind words. You've really helped me rationalize again. Lots of kisses to you both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disneygotpierced View Post
    There's logical answers to all of those things (now that I've calmed down)

    I've put on medical induced weight and I feel unattractive. I have lost halfish of the weight I gained, so I am working to get rid of it. It's silly, but one of my 'friends' called me fat and it really hurt.
    The grade...I got a B because I was in and out of hospital before the exam. In reality, I did excellent considering the circumstances. I'm just used to being an straight A student so this really distraught me.

    So, in hindsight I just had a bit of a breakdown. It's stupid to be upset at things I cannot control (medical issues.) After having a good cry and cuddle with mum, I'm feeling much better.
    No, not silly, that comment would hurt anybody.

    VERY excellent, considering.

    No, not stupid - human.

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    DA, a big sloppy for you. I'm sure you will be getting lots of them from Inca soon, but I wanted to get in first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disneygotpierced View Post
    There's logical answers to all of those things (now that I've calmed down)

    I've put on medical induced weight and I feel unattractive. I have lost halfish of the weight I gained, so I am working to get rid of it. It's silly, but one of my 'friends' called me fat and it really hurt.

    The grade...I got a B because I was in and out of hospital before the exam. In reality, I did excellent considering the circumstances. I'm just used to being an straight A student so this really distraught me.

    So, in hindsight I just had a bit of a breakdown. It's stupid to be upset at things I cannot control (medical issues.) After having a good cry and cuddle with mum, I'm feeling much better.
    Hey DIS, don't let a B get you down. As you say, given the circumstances, this is as good as an A. Baby girl, to strive for perfection is a wonderful goal, ie contiuning straight A's, but sometimes it is not literally possible. There can always be external factors beyond our control, trust me, this is something I know full well. I actually failed year 12 due to my mum being ill and the extra responsilbilty I needed to absord,let alone the fact that I changed schools for such a crucial year. Everyone thought I should have been afforded a compensatory pass, but this did not occur, so I started to do it over again, oh by the way, I had basically been an A/B student up until year 12. The call come in the early part of my repeat for a uni place, I took it and now I have a Uni degree without HSC, or VCE as it is called now. I am glad your mum is there for you, she sounds like she has your best interests at heart, hold on to that love, it is precious.

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