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    Angry dog behaving badly

    Ok so a bit of a rant...

    I accompanied my OH to a party being given by one of his co-workers, I'm a bit of an introvert and can't stand going to parties where I don't know anyone but my OH encouraged me saying 'Maybe they'll have a dog you can play with"

    So we rock up and I hear a dog bark as we get to the door, ok good start they have a dog, dog continues to bark very loudly as we are ushered into the lounge room and take a seat, ok starting to get on my nerves a bit but we are told she'll calm down in a minute, just excited with all these new people. (don't ask me what kind of dog I don't know breeds - middle sized, slimish, long pointy ears). So the dog finally stops barking and comes around to give us all a sniff as we sit down, I offer the dog the back of my hand to sniff, she seems fine, she pushes her head under my hand and I start to give her a soft stroke on the head, all very lovely thinking this could be a good night after all.

    Ok so then after I had been stroking her head for about 10 secs she suddenly starts baring her teeth and growling at me WTF??? I quickly remove my hand and watch while she just stands there snarling at me only to be told by the owners 'Oh she does that sometimes, she likes to be in control of when she's touched and for how long'. I was shocked and didn't try to pat her for the rest of the evening. Of course as soon as I had food in my hand she came running around wagging her tail with a 'butter wouldn't melt in her mouth' look but she'd burnt her bridges with me.

    She spent the rest of the night trying to lick all the food on the coffee table (after which the owners would pick up a piece and give it too her - great training guys), barking whenever anyone made a sudden move or laughed to loudly and snarling at anyone who was silly enough to try to pat her. She walked up to one girl, stuck her head right in the girl's lap for attention and then went crazy barking at the poor girl. The owners just said 'oh that's a compliment, she thinks you're an equal and she's trying to assert her authority'. Both myself and my OH were completely shocked by this dog's behaviour and more to the point the complete lack of understanding and training by the owners. One of the owners could get her to give him and kiss but the other own would just get snarled at if he tried. It's was really really bad pack behaviour with this dog definitely not being at the bottom of the pack.

    When we were saying goodbye one of the girls went to give the owner a kiss on the cheek and the dog went frantic barking and jumping at her. It was awful. If you got up to move around the house the dog would follow you and bark, so I would turn around at it, use a very firm palm down gesture to it and say 'NO' very firmly and that seems to shut it up for a few minutes but honestly it was the worst behaved dog we've ever met.

    I had to keep assuring my OH that our dog will not be like that!!! Can't stand people who don't train their dogs to behave in social situations or at least remove them from the room! Even when the food was up on a high table it was a case of get in quick before the dog licks everything! BLAH!!!

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    Gosh... how could someone even stand living with a dog like that?!?! There are many things i could say here, but i'll only say one. Its situations like that which result in children getting attacked by dogs, a child might not realise that the dog isn't happy and next thing you know the dog is attacking

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    Slim, long pointy ears.

    I wonder if that's a pharaoh hound. There's one that lives around the corner from me and it's owners have NFI how to look after it either. It can't be walked at the park any more because it views all other dogs and small children as prey. There's a few other breeds that look similar like pointy eared greyhounds.

    The above dog reads like it needs a couple of months of NILIF and I think I would be avoiding that co-worker's home until they agree to keep the dog away from guests and food put out for guests.
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    Gosh!! That sounds utterly frustrating. Also sounds like they have watched some dog training shows, read some books and/ or had a dumb "trainer" come out and talk to them, but most likely the first one.

    If your OH is close with the coworker I'd be suggesting a little chat to encourage them to seek help. That sounds nuts.

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    The 'that's a compliment' line would be hilarious if it weren't so tragic. It sounds like they're merely using snippets they've heard about dog behaviour as an excuse for not doing what they're supposed to do, which is making sure their dog isn't a bother or threat to others.

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    That dog needs a smack on the arse..... and so does the owner !!

    I dont put up with that crap. Thats how kids get attacked and dogs put down.


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    thats embarrassing! theres no way i would allow mine to behave like that. Sounds to me like they need a good kick up the ass!
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    Thanks guys, yeah we were shocked and embarrassed for them, almost put OH off getting a dog, all the way home I kept saying to him 'Our dog will NOT be like that, its not a bad dog, its just bad owners.' I hate it when people make execuses for their dog's behaviour rather than realising they need some good solid training. They kept saying 'Oh its an alpha, beta, gamma thing, she wants to be the alpha' and I was just thinking, 'Yes but you can't let her!" I think in the end we just decided that we'd never go there again.

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    'ejburke32' - fantastic idea about never going back there again !

    I am afraid that I would not have stayed for as long as you two did ! I have very little tolerance for that level of stupidity and bad manners !

    Some things for you two to remember:

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