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    Quote Originally Posted by puggerup View Post
    Clubsprint has had his account suspended.


    I am sorry about the loss of your mother. I believe you probably need time to go through your grieving process rather than take out your frustration here, at me.
    Please step away from the computer if it is upsetting you. You need to give yourself space and be around people who can offer the support you need during this sad time.
    Thanks puggerup for your kind words. Yes, I am grieving but I really am not trying to take out my frustrations on you. I tried hard to word that post of mine to illustrate that I recognised the problems you faced as a moderator.

    All the best,

    ricey

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    Well I suggest an apology to Di-dee is in order also. You just put her down as a moderator PLUS the forum in which she moderates, which also happens to be run by friends of mine.

    If you need me to place a stop on your account for a short period while you grieve the loss of your Mum, please let me know.

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    I didn't find Ricey's report rude at all. Helpful actually.

    Ricey, I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother.
    Last edited by JJames; 10-09-2011 at 07:49 AM.

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    That's right Ricey, a huge worldwide cancer forum is certainly not worth much, eh?

    Any posts made under the name of Di_dee1 one can be used by anyone as I do not give a rats.

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    That's a HUGE responsibility Di

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    I do not like where this is going at all, but I'll say my 2c worth.

    I do not expect a moderator to interfere every time a discussion becomes too heated. A forum is a community and as such we all have a responsibility to help keep it healthy.

    If you're going to keep responding to inflammatory posts just because you absolutely need to have the last word, you're just as guilty as the person you're responding to IMO. To blame it on the moderator is unfair and immature.

    If you don't like CS's posts, don't respond to them. I just don't get what is so hard about that.

    Anywho, it's a non issue for the next couple of weeks anyway.

    And I am truly sorry to hear about your mother, ricey.

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    Quote Originally Posted by puggerup View Post
    That's a HUGE responsibility Di
    Mods are in different countries so we cover all time zones.
    Some admin had a brain fart and asked me to be one as obviously I am still there even though in remission.

    Most people move on with their lives after treatment...a good and healthy thing to do but I stuck around as mine is/was very rare and no one had my sub type on any forums that I lurked on or joined so as to be there for someone else coming through after me.
    I also oversee some of the women's cancer boards.

    It can be a very heavy and sad place at times but we still have the odd laugh.

    OT but done to answer Pug.

    Any posts made under the name of Di_dee1 one can be used by anyone as I do not give a rats.

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    Off Topic..



    Thanks for that feedback Di_Lee1

    Quite humbling to read and a good reality check for our life's priorities, be they here or elsewhere.

    Could have said it with a PM, but wanted to share.



    Back OT....
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    ... Jade ...

    Aha yeah me too! wee wee or pee pee and poo poo's or poopie

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    I don't think it was too far off topic Chipps!

    Pugger, IMO you moderate fairly, though there are times when a decision will surprise me - I am quite surprised I haven't had a suspension as yet to be honest. I think I take things too far at times and I know I've attacked CS, admittedly in retaliation but that does not make it right.

    Ricey, I am so very sorry for your loss. It is gut wrenching to say goodbye to anyone you love, even more so when it is one of your parents. I truly hope you have family & loved ones surrounding you.

    Di, You blow my mind! You are incredibly strong and an inspiration.

    At the end of the day, this is a forum and people have their beliefs. When those beliefs are challenged, however gently, fireworks occur. We wouldn't be human if we didn't have that happen.

    I'm amazed at how far off track this entire thread has gone. But I love it!

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    I think this particular thread has well and truly run it's course and is delving into territory that really should not be delved into.
    I am closing this thread, if anyone can give me a good reason to reopen it feel free to state your reasons why to me for consideration.
    Beau.
    Last edited by Beau; 10-09-2011 at 02:18 PM.
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